Henri Bendel’s Bag Sale: Colorful Finds

The end of a season is upon us and what does it mean for most retailers and consumers, you got it, sale season. Now is the best time to snag some of those cool accessories or pieces that you’ve been eyeing all Summer but never got around to getting because the price was, ahem, too damn high.

Henri Bendel (an NYC staple) has graced the interwebs with a fantastic sale where they aren’t just slinging the “what’s left” from the Summer season. They are offering some really cool bags and accessories that you can take into Fall, Winter, and next Summer seamlessly.

Colorful Finds: 

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Michelle Mini Tote in Warm Olive–Was: $350 Now: $140

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West 57th Tassel Mini Saddle Bag in Indigo–Was: $250 Now: $100

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Atrium Sachelin Warm Olive–Was: $498 Now: $180

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West 57th Street Grommet Backpack in Bodacious–Was: $398 Now: $159.20 

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Rivington Colorblocked Leather Tote–Was $428 Now: $256.80

Happy Sale Surfing.

http://www.henribendel.com/default/homepage

 

 

Get Up, Get Out and Get Something: How Do You Start?

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We are in August and the signs of Summer are dwindling, not because of a number of days we have left in the season but because of the “back to school” ads and the fall fashions in our favorite magazines. I know, you are just getting into the Summer mode. Your skin has just achieved the best tan and you’ve just gotten used to walking out the door without a sweater or winter coat.

I had some summer goals but as I reflect and look into August, I’ve realized that I’ve only gotten a bit of my “to dos” done. Honestly, sometimes I don’t like to look back and reflect because it forces me to hold myself accountable.

As per usual, I made sure that my daughter worked towards her academic enrichment. Today is the last day of her Summer course which began right after July 4th. Yup. The time came and went. I made sure, as a mother, her goal was achieved. Unfortunately, once again, I placed my goal(s) on the back burner. Did I have the time? Yes. Did I have the motivation? Somewhat. Did I act? Nope.

Inaction.

In truth, inaction is probably my greatest flaw. It is probably the greatest reason why I have not done the things that I have wanted to do. Why am I writing this down on the world wide web? Not sure. Maybe it’s purging. Maybe it’s therapeutic but I’m hoping that it is a step in helping me take ACTION.

Thanks for listening. As a “thank you”, here is a picture of Miami Beach because it is a happy place for me 🙂

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What are your tips for taking action for starting towards a (big) goal?

Grace Jerk Festival: NY

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Summertime in NYC means it’s time for festivals and cultural fairs and the Gace Jamaican Jerk Festival is one of the best festivities in NYC.

The Grace Jamaican Jerk Festival festivities went down again this year in Queens, NYC. It really has become a Summer “Must Do” if you are in NYC. The vibes are set up the irie way. You are transported to Jamaica by way of the music and jerk pans, jerking chicken throughout the park. A waft of jerk chicken takes you straight to the feel of being beachside or at your favorite jerk stand in Jamaica.

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Intense cooking faces on the contestants. Celebrity chef, Winford Patrick Simpson walking the audience through the cooking challenge.

Hard Fi Deal Wid Tv Captured the Essence of the Festival:

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The Mayor and his First Lady greeted the crowd to start the show.

A Live Stage Show at Roy Wilkins Park with Your favorite Reggae and Soca Artists: Konshens, Alison Hinds, Barrington Levy, Morgan Heritage.

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Chicken in the pan being jerked.

 

 

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Wave yuh flag!

 

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A fun time was had by all but the star of the show was jerk seasoning. You don’t have to feel left out because you were not at the park. Visit Grace Foods online and pick up their jerk seasoning or hot sauce and bring the heritage of jerk to your own home.

www.gracefoods.com

Don’t miss the next event! Visit www.jerkfestivalny.com for more info.

Get access to the best videos and entertainment at Hard Fi Deal Wid Tv.

 

Curlfest: Brooklyn’s Finest

Curlfest is a gathering of the most beautiful people ever! The third annual Curlfest happened in July and this is the first year that I actually got the chance to attend. I’ve RSVPed every year prior but life happened and I was never able to attend. well, it was worth the wait. I took my 12-year-old daughter along to the dopest picnic with the dopest women rocking natural hair.

There was a main stage with a DJ spinning all of the Beyonce that you can dance to. All of your favorite curl products/brands were on the lawn in Prospect Park selling your faves, handing out samples and vibing with cool IG backdrops for cool pictures.

The ladies over at http://www.curlygirlcollective.com/ knows how to throw a party. Make sure you are on the lawn next year.

The New York Times Coverage:

Essence’s Curlfest Roundup:

http://www.essence.com/hair/curlfest-2017-hair-street-style

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The ladies of Fanm Djanm were on the lawn.

Photos: Hannah Selah

 

Coney Island’s Art Walls

It’s summertime and the living is easy. Every New Yorker knows that a visit to Coney Island is a “must do” when the warm weather rolls around. You go for the boardwalk, good bites (food), the rides, cool people and strolling on the very busy beach. A great addition to the already great spot is the art walls. A collective of artists get together and curate a great collection of colorful and though provocative pieces. Stop and take a  picture because it’s worth it.

A great addition to the already great spot is the Art Walls. A collective of artists get together and curate a great collection of colorful and though provocative pieces. Stop and take a  picture because it’s worth it.

 

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The historic parachute drop.
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Our view from the elevated “Q” Train MTA line.

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It’s All About the Benjamins Baby. I guess you do flips when you have a seat at the money table.
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I adored the simplicity and nostalgia of this piece. But the message here can connote that love can be dangerous.

 

Buy a quick bite from a vendor, bring a blanket and munch on the beach.

http://www.coneyisland.com/tourist-information

 

WhenYour Favorite Rapper’s Rapper Talk Financial Freedom, You Listen: Jay-Z Edition.

Jay-Z recently blessed the masses by dropping his most recent album, 4:44. (Tangent, Is it a coincidence that if your hold down the “shift” key “444” turns into “$$$”?) When we think of Jay-Z we automatically think of his equally accomplished wife, Beyonce. We think of excellence. We think of Dollar Bills and Coins! The amount of money that they have both amassed is something to brag about. They have social, economic and political clout. They have success. Most important, they personify financial freedom.

Jay-Z, 4:44

The songs on the album go into so many areas of Jay-Z’s life. He talks about infidelity, maturity, dedication to family, sexuality, race relations and a few other topics I’m sure slipped past me. The one topic that Jay rapped about and resonated with me was “financial freedom”. Now, make no mistake, he’s touched on the topic before–remember “until you own your own you can’t be free.” This album goes deeper. In the song and video that was released, “The Story of O.J”, Jay-Z goes in depth regarding the need for us to invest, pass on an inheritance to our children and build our communities by buying property.  He depicts himself in a racist cartoon in the video to show that even though a Black man can amass great wealth/success in America, he is not just looked at as a man but as a… There is a sadness in the black and white cartoon. At least a sadness for me in that here, a 40-year old brilliant man feels the artistic/social need to depict himself as a racist cartoon from the 1920s because there is still relevance. I recently asked a friend if we will ever transcend race in America and the answer was a resounding, “no.”   I’m keeping hope alive that we will begin to see each other as people and not just our race sooner rather than later.

I feel like I’ve ebbed and flowed all over in my writing this post but this is my norm. Bear with me. As a 40-year-old it is only appropriate for Jay-Z to address financial freedom. I’m 40-year-old and upon turning 40, maybe even into my late 30s, my finances was all I thought about. Gone are the days where I lived to rip the mall down and buy everything in it. I simply got no pleasure from that anymore. My high comes from reading my 401k statements and thinking of investments that I can one day pass on to my child or making moves now that can give the younger children in my family an advantage later on.

Financial freedom comes with education about finances. We aren’t taught financial literacy in school so this is where self-education comes into play. Thank goodness for the internet and even social media. There is so much information on hand in books and in media. I borrow books from the library and follow some fabulous people on social media to learn new skills and gain ideas.

Take a listen and browse Vibe’s site: http://www.vibe.com/2017/06/jay-z-the-story-of-oj-video-444/

Eonline also did a great wrap-up: http://www.eonline.com/news/864291/jay-z-s-4-44-lyrics-all-about-beyonce-cheating-solange-the-twins-and-becky

 

Noir

The color black is often seen as somber and a color that we wear to mourn but it actually evokes the opposite feeling for me. As a child, my favorite color was red. Not just any red, but the brightest red possible. The color red brought me immense joy when I wore it. You couldn’t tell the 8-year old me nothing if I had on a red dress that I could twirl in. Twirl! Today, the color black does the same thing for me. Living in NYC makes loving the color Black even easier because I really feel like an all black outfit it is the city’s unofficial uniform. It is only natural that I fall in love with the color that my city reps.

We were in Battery Park City recently and the newly revitalized neighborhood is one of my favorite places to spend summer days in the city. We took the opportunity to use the amazing light to capture the beauty of the shades of black.

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Coat: Old Navy

Long Sleeve T-Shirt: Old Navy

Sunglasses: Cole Haan

Red Lip: ELF

www.oldnavy.com

www.elfcosmetics.com

www.colehaan.com

Photos: www.johnricard.com

 

African Women Create

I’m going to be very honest with you. I have never been in a room surrounded by women from all regions of Africa before. I am Black and surrounded by Black women, mainly from North America and the Caribbean.However, in my 40-years on this planet, I have never been in a social setting with women who wear names like “Ngosi” and speak with accents that bear a flavor of British and Xhosa vibes. Well, it happened on Saturday, May 20th. There I was in a room, by myself, surrounded by magic. I rarely go to events alone but the idea of a potluck and the gathering of creative women drew me to attend. The potluck told me that there might be a communal and family feel to the event and there would be no need to put on airs of importance.  You always get me with the word, “creative.” I have been on my own personal quest in pursuit of my own creativity so I found this event to be the perfect marriage.

I follow this amazingly beautiful and lively woman on Instagram named, Yolanda Sangweni. She is the Digital Content Director at Essence Magazine and founder of Afripop Magazine. Talk about a creative! She graciously hosted the African Women Create event in a most spiritual and IG picture poppin’ yoga studio in Brooklyn, named Minka. The rubber plants and greenery were so freaking dope. All of the crystals, incense, rose water and candles had my chakra in alignment and I was all feels.

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Wait, did I mention that there was a mixologist whipping up some delicious cocktails. Well yes, Witches Brew came through and concocted heavenly, natural juices mixed with your choice of top shelf goodies.  

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Here is Nucomme from Witches Brew doing her thing!

 

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The potluck setup.

 

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A beachy feel in the middle of Flatbush Ave in Brooklyn.
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You feel automatically aligned and clear.
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Joy!
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Yolanda thanking all of the ladies for gathering together.

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There was a DJ that spun afrobeat all night long.

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Beach Waves: Styled by Sunnie Brook

The very good people at Head and Shoulders sent me a message asking if I was interested in getting styled by celeb hairstylist Sunnie Brook. Is that even a question? Heck yeah, I was interested. I messaged back Scotty Warp Speed to let them know just excited I was to have a phenomenal stylist lay some magic on my tresses.

I arrived at the “Beauty Box”, a small pop-up type salon at Head and Shoulders, and was greeted by the friendliest smiling face that was Sunnie’s. She immediately made sure I felt completely comfortable by proceeding to ask me about myself. I felt like I’d known her forever. That’s really the mark of a true stylist. You feel like she/he is a true friend.

 

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The “Smooth and Silky” line promises frizz free hair while still keeping your scalp clean and healthy.

 

I arrived with my curls and she began working her magic.

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The first step in Sunnie’s process was straightening out my tighter curls using a flat iron. Invest in a great quality flat iron because it gets the job done in half the time because the heat is high enough to straighten without damaging your hair.

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Snapping the ever elusive mirror pic. I can never get those right. We are almost done with the straightening.

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Almost There. I have thick, curly hair so straightening can be a process but Sunnie’s technique is quick and painless.

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Look ma, no curls! Lol. I would have walked out and had been perfectly happy with the bone straight style but Sunnie was only in the middle of creating magic.

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She used the medium barrel curling iron to create super sexy beachy waves. Proper equipment and products are key to creating million dollar styles.

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How amazing are these waves though!!??
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Here she is, Ms. Sunnie Brooke. Magic maker. Hair Slayer.
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Can’t wait to give my Head & Shoulders, “Smooth & Silky” shampoo and conditioner a twirl.

Video of the process:

Shot by John Ricard

IG:

@SunnieBrook

@HeadShoulders

@tamaranycc

Twitter:

@SunnieBrook

@HeadShoulders

How I’m Staying Financially Fit

I love all things hair, fashion, and current hautness on my television but I am also at a point in my life where I am thinking of my finances more so than ever before. I have always been cautious with my money and careful to not live in debt (outside of a student loan). I believe that a student loan is an acceptable debt (but if you can avoid it, please do so!!)

I am on a financial journey of sorts at this time so every now and then I will blog about the journey and take you down the road with me. Hopefully, you can learn or even share some of your own knowledge or journey with money.

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Eight Ways For Staying Financially Fit

  1. Income is not the be all and end all to making money. It is not about how much money you make; It’s about how much money you keep. If you make $100,000 annually and spend it all or even are in debt then that income does not contribute to your long-term wealth. A person making $30,000 and keeping or investing $10,000 of it has more potential for wealth than the individual making $100,000 per year.
  2. Have a goal (financial or life goal) and have a plan to work towards it. A goal provides something that is yours that you are working towards.
  3. Money must play a role in your everyday conversation. Garner a great relationship with money and don’t be afraid to talk about money with your family and friends.
  4. Do not give your money away. Instead of wasting money on expensive shoes, car, clothing (that you may not truly be able to afford) or even financially draining people; the best way to channel your money is to invest it. Put your money into something that grows and not depreciates.
  5. Learn Financial Fertility. Think of fertile soil. It is where you want to grow fruits and vegetables because the soil will give you the best return as far as food goes. As long as you water and till your soil then you will bear fruit. The same goes for your money. We can no longer let our money sit in a traditional bank account because it is not the best soil for making your money grow. Look into investing in mutual funds, IRAs and the stock market.
  6. Learn what it means to be a millionaire. Most millionaires don’t necessarily have a million dollars sitting in a bank account. Their money is calculated through their net worth. How much are your assets worth minus your liabilities?
  7. Learn (and teach your children) every mode of economic transport to financial freedom. You can make money several ways: work for someone, be an entrepreneur or be an investor.
  8. Know the rules of this economic and financial game. Educate yourself by reading books,  find people on the web (social media) who speak to you and motivate you to make better financial moves. There is a wealth of knowledge at your fingertips. Visit your local library for financial classes or investment education.

 

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